COUPLES COACHING · 3 MONTHS
You haven’t grown apart.
You’ve just stopped understanding each other.
Real, research-backed couples coaching for the relationship you still believe in — even when it’s hard to remember why.
COUPLES Coaching · 3 MONTHS
You haven’t grown apart.
You’ve just stopped understanding each other.
Real, research-backed couples coaching for the relationship you still believe in — even when it’s hard to remember why.
COUPLES Coaching · 3 MONTHS
You haven’t grown apart.
You’ve just stopped understanding each other.
Real, research-backed couples coaching for the relationship you still believe in — even when it’s hard to remember why.
You’ve had the same argument so many times you could script it.
One of you shuts down. The other pushes harder. Or you both go quiet and nothing gets resolved — until the next time it happens all over again.
You still love each other. That’s not the question. The question is why does it keep going like this — and is anything ever going to actually change?
If you’re both ready to stop going in circles and start actually understanding each other — you’re in the right place.
You’ve had the same argument so many times you could script it.
One of you shuts down. The other pushes harder. Or you both go quiet and nothing gets resolved — until the next time it happens all over again.
You still love each other. That’s not the question. The question is why does it keep going like this — and is anything ever going to actually change?
If you’re both ready to stop going in circles and start actually understanding each other — you’re in the right place.
WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON
It’s not that you’re wrong for each other.
Most couples who come to me aren’t in trouble because they’re incompatible. They’re in trouble because they’ve never been given the tools to actually understand each other — or themselves — in the middle of conflict.
When things get hard, most people do one of two things. They push harder, trying to be heard. Or they shut down to protect themselves. Neither works. And both leave the other person feeling alone.
“The goal isn’t to stop fighting. It’s to finally understand what you’re really fighting about.”
Underneath every repeated argument is something deeper — a need that isn’t being met, a fear that isn’t being seen, a pattern neither of you chose but both of you are stuck in. That’s what we get to the bottom of. Together.
what’s really going on
It’s not that you’re wrong for each other.
Most couples who come to me aren’t in trouble because they’re incompatible. They’re in trouble because they’ve never been given the tools to actually understand each other — or themselves — in the middle of conflict.
When things get hard, most people do one of two things. They push harder trying to be heard. Or they shut down to protect themselves. Neither works. And both leave the other person feeling alone.
“The goal isn’t to stop fighting. It’s to finally understand what you’re really fighting about.”
Underneath every repeated argument is something deeper — a need that isn’t being met, a fear that isn’t being seen, a pattern neither of you chose but both of you are stuck in. That’s what we get to the bottom of. Together.
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT
This is not couples therapy.
This is active, forward-focused coaching grounded in the most research-backed relationship methodology in the world — the Gottman method. We’re not here to rehash the past. We’re here to build something different, starting now. With a clear structure, real tools, and someone in your corner for 3 full months.
HOW WE WORK TOGETHER
Your 3 month journey.
Every couples container begins with understanding where you actually are — not where you think you are. From there, we build. Week by week, session by session, with real support between every call.
PHASE 1
The Gottman Assessment
Before we do anything else, I give you both the Gottman relationship assessment — one of the most comprehensive and research-backed tools available for understanding where a relationship is and where it needs to go. You each complete it individually. Then we go through the results together. It tells us everything — your strengths, your patterns, your areas of growth — and it gives us a roadmap for the entire 3 months. Most couples say this alone is worth it. They finally feel understood in a way they couldn’t put into words themselves.
PHASE 2
The Deep Work
Using the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work as our foundation — one of the most trusted and effective relationship frameworks in the world — we get into the real work. We look at what’s driving the conflict, what’s creating the distance, and what each of you actually needs but hasn’t been able to ask for. Session by session, we rebuild understanding, communication, and connection from the inside out. This is where everything starts to shift.
PHASE 3
Integration & Real Life
The final phase is about making it stick. You’ve done the work. Now we make sure it lives in your relationship long after our 3 months together are over. We look at what’s changed, what still needs attention, and what tools you’re taking with you. You leave with a clear picture of who you are as a couple — and what to do when things get hard again. Because they will. And you’ll be ready.
THE ASSESSMENT
The Gottman Relationship Assessment.
The Gottman assessment is not a quiz. It’s a deeply researched diagnostic tool developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman — the world’s leading relationship researchers — after decades of studying what makes relationships succeed or fail.
It gives us a complete, honest picture of your relationship — your friendship, your conflict patterns, your shared meaning, your dreams. And it means we never waste a session guessing. We know exactly where to focus from day one.
This assessment is included in your couples container and administered before your very first coaching session.
What the assessment reveals:
- The depth of your friendship and emotional connection
- How you each handle conflict — and why
- Where you’re getting stuck and what’s driving it
- What each of you needs that isn’t being communicated
- Your shared values, dreams, and sense of meaning
- Your relationship’s specific strengths to build on
BEFORE & AFTER
What changes in 3 months
BEFORE
The same argument on repeat with no resolution
One of you shuts down, the other pushes harder
Feeling more like roommates than partners
Saying things you don’t mean and not saying what you do
Wondering if this is just how it’s always going to be
Trying to fix it alone without the right tools
AFTER
Understanding what you’re really fighting about
Knowing how to reach each other even in conflict
Feeling genuinely seen and heard by your partner
Communicating needs clearly and without the charge
A roadmap for when things get hard again
Real tools grounded in decades of relationship research
BEFORE & AFTER
What changes in 3 months
BEFORE
The same argument on repeat with no resolution
One of you shuts down, the other pushes harder
Feeling more like roommates than partners
Saying things you don’t mean and not saying what you do
Wondering if this is just how it’s always going to be
Trying to fix it alone without the right tools
AFTER
Understanding what you’re really fighting about
Knowing how to reach each other even in conflict
Feeling genuinely seen and heard by your partner
Communicating needs clearly and without the charge
A roadmap for when things get hard again
Real tools grounded in decades of relationship research
IS THIS FOR YOU?
This is for you if —
- You keep having the same fights and nothing ever fully resolves
- You love each other but something has shifted and you can’t quite name it
- One or both of you shuts down during conflict and you don’t know how to get through to each other
- You’ve grown apart and want to find your way back to each other
- You’re not in crisis — but you can feel the distance growing and you want to close it before it gets worse
- You want more than generic advice — you want a real, personalized plan built around your specific relationship
- You’re both willing to show up, do the work, and be honest
IS THIS FOR YOU?
This is for you if —
- You keep having the same fights and nothing ever fully resolves
- You love each other but something has shifted and you can’t quite name it
- One or both of you shuts down during conflict and you don’t know how to get through to each other
- You’ve grown apart and want to find your way back to each other
- You’re not in crisis — but you can feel the distance growing and you want to close it before it gets worse
- You want more than generic advice — you want a real, personalized plan built around your specific relationship
- You’re both willing to show up, do the work, and be honest
EVERYTHING INCLUDED
What’s inside
the container
12 Couples Coaching Calls
Twelve 50-minute sessions over 3 months — just the two of you and me. Deep, structured, and completely personalized to what’s happening in your relationship. No scripts. No generic exercises. Real work that moves you forward.
Voxer Support Monday–Friday
When something comes up between sessions — and it will — you don’t have to wait until your next call. Message me. I’m here Monday through Friday to help you navigate real moments in real time. This is the support most couples have never had.
The Gottman Relationship Assessment
Completed before your first session, this comprehensive assessment gives us a full picture of your relationship — your strengths, your patterns, and exactly where to focus. It’s the foundation everything else is built on.
The Seven Principles Framework
Based on the landmark book by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is one of the most research-backed relationship frameworks in the world. It’s the structure we use throughout our 3 months together.
Personalized Tools & Resources
Every couple is different. The tools and exercises I give you are built around what comes up in your sessions — not pulled from a generic library. You’ll leave with resources that are actually relevant to your relationship.
12 Years of Expertise
I bring over a decade of experience working with couples navigating some of the hardest moments in their relationships — and every single couple who has been willing to put in the effort has seen real, lasting change.
EVERYTHING INCLUDED
What’s inside the container
12 Couples Coaching Calls
Twelve 50-minute sessions over 3 months — just the two of you and me. Deep, structured, and completely personalized to what’s happening in your relationship. No scripts. No generic exercises. Real work that moves you forward.
The Seven Principles Framework
Based on the landmark book by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is one of the most research-backed relationship frameworks in the world. It’s the structure we use throughout our 3 months together.
Voxer Support Monday–Friday
When something comes up between sessions — and it will — you don’t have to wait until your next call. Message me. I’m here Monday through Friday to help you navigate real moments in real time. This is the support most couples have never had.
Personalized Tools & Resources
Every couple is different. The tools and exercises I give you are built around what comes up in your sessions — not pulled from a generic library. You’ll leave with resources that are actually relevant to your relationship.
The Gottman Relationship Assessment
Completed before your first session, this comprehensive assessment gives us a full picture of your relationship — your strengths, your patterns, and exactly where to focus. It’s the foundation everything else is built on.
12 Years of Expertise
I bring over a decade of experience working with couples navigating some of the hardest moments in their relationships — and every single couple who has been willing to put in the effort has seen real, lasting change.
YOUR COACH
Hi, I’m Lisa.
For over 12 years I’ve worked with couples who are exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if the relationship they fell in love with is still in there somewhere. It always is. It just needs the right support to find its way back.
I’m trained in the Gottman method, certified to teach the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and trained by Martha Beck (Oprah Winfrey’s personal life coach) — bringing together two of the most powerful methodologies in relationships and personal transformation.
I’m not here to tell you what to do or take sides. I’m here to help you both finally understand each other — and give you the tools to keep doing that long after our time together is over.
That’s the work. And I’ve never seen it fail when both people are willing to show up for it.
YOUR COACH
Hi, I’m Lisa.
For over 12 years I’ve worked with couples who are exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if the relationship they fell in love with is still in there somewhere. It always is. It just needs the right support to find its way back.
I’m trained in the Gottman method, certified to teach the Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, and trained by Martha Beck (Oprah Winfrey’s personal life coach) — bringing together two of the most powerful methodologies in relationships and personal transformation.
I’m not here to tell you what to do or take sides. I’m here to help you both finally understand each other — and give you the tools to keep doing that long after our time together is over.
That’s the work. And I’ve never seen it fail when both people are willing to show up for it.
THE NEXT STEP
Ready to finally understand each other?
3-Month couples coaching
The first step is a free 20-minute Zoom call — just the two of you and me. We’ll talk about where you are, what you’re hoping for, and whether this feels like the right fit. No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation.
If it feels right, we’ll talk about next steps together. Every couples coaching session is built around your specific relationship — because no two couples are the same.
THE NEXT STEP
Ready to finally understand each other?
3-month couples coaching
The first step is a free 20-minute Zoom call — just the two of you and me. We’ll talk about where you are, what you’re hoping for, and whether this feels like the right fit. No pressure. No pitch. Just an honest conversation.
If it feels right, we’ll talk about next steps together. Every couples coaching session is built around your specific relationship — because no two couples are the same.