private relationship coach
Lisa Panos
When your relationship feels harder than it should, it’s time for a better map.
Private guidance for individuals and couples navigating complex relationship seasons with clarity, depth, and lasting change.
You’re capable. You’ve built a meaningful life.
And yet, in this season, the relationship that matters most feels uncertain, strained, or quietly disconnected.
I help you slow down, re-orient, and move forward with intention — without losing yourself or the relationship.
Hello,
I’m Lisa.
I’m a certified life and relationship coach who works privately with individuals and couples navigating difficult relationship seasons.
My background includes training with world-class mentors and evidence-based frameworks, but what defines my work is not a single method — it’s the ability to see patterns clearly and help others move through them with steadiness and insight.
Clients work with me because they want a guide who is calm, direct, and deeply attuned — someone who can help them find their way forward without judgment or agenda.
COACHING
Lisa provides private coaching for individuals and couples who want focused, strategic support navigating relationship dynamics and breaking unhealthy cycles. This work is grounded in research and designed to create clarity around patterns, triggers, and decision-making. Sessions explore emotional regulation, attachment tendencies, communication structure, and the roles each person plays within the relationship. The process is direct yet steady, helping clients move from reactive patterns to intentional responses. Rather than endlessly processing the same issues, clients gain practical tools and a clear forward strategy. The result is greater emotional stability, stronger communication, and more confident relational choices.
WORKSHOPS
Lisa offers structured, research-informed workshops designed to help individuals and couples understand the relational patterns shaping their lives. These sessions move beyond surface-level communication advice and into the mechanics of conflict, emotional regulation, and repair. Participants learn how escalation cycles form, why disconnection happens, and how to interrupt those patterns in real time. Each workshop is intentionally designed to be practical and strategic, creating immediate insight and usable tools — not just inspiration. Whether hosted privately or for a curated group, the environment is thoughtful, contained, and focused on meaningful change. Attendees leave with language, clarity, and a framework they can immediately apply in their relationships.
you don’t need fixing
You Need Direction.
Most of my clients are high-performing individuals and couples in established relationships — often second marriages or blended families — who feel stuck in patterns they can’t seem to shift on their own.
They’re not in crisis.
They’re thoughtful, invested, and exhausted by conversations that go nowhere or make things worse.
This work isn’t about assigning blame or endlessly revisiting the past. It’s about understanding what’s actually happening beneath the surface — and learning how to navigate it with clarity and steadiness.
A Different Way Through
I work as a guide — to help you understand where you are, how you got here, and what it will take to move forward well.
Together, we focus on:
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Identifying long-standing relational patterns that keep repeating
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Understanding your internal responses, not just surface behavior
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Learning how to speak about what truly matters without escalation or withdrawal
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Creating durable change that holds up under real-life stress
The work is private, deliberate, and deeply personal.
It’s designed for people who want meaningful change — not quick fixes.
“I want to share one of my top secrets to success: my life coach Lisa Panos. Lisa is my encourager, she is my empowerment, my guide when I’m lost, my lifesaver when I’m stuck, my tell it like it is kind of friend and my kick in the ass when I need it. The best part for me about Lisa is she’s in my corner at all times, someone who will never judge me but really SEES me and my highest self especially on the days I can’t! If you are looking for a life coach, I couldn’t recommend her any higher.”
“Lisa offers structured, research-informed workshops designed to help individuals and couples understand the relational patterns shaping their lives. These sessions move beyond surface-level communication advice and into the mechanics of conflict, emotional regulation, and repair. Participants learn how escalation cycles form, why disconnection happens, and how to interrupt those patterns in real time. Each workshop is intentionally designed to be practical and strategic, creating immediate insight and usable tools — not just inspiration. Whether hosted privately or for a curated group, the environment is thoughtful, contained, and focused on meaningful change. Attendees leave with language, clarity, and a framework they can immediately apply in their relationships.
“What I discovered most valuable about Lisa’s coaching was her ability to really see me—or maybe I should say, see the real me! I feel like Lisa helped me really own my power. As the successful owner of a growing financial advisory firm specializing in women in transition, like many women, so much of what I do in business and at home is worthwhile but invisible and that feeling of neglect took a toll on my relationships especially with myself. Working with Lisa helped me value who I am more and what I do and gave me the courage to do things in a bigger, more visible way. Thank you Lisa for pushing me to “OWN IT” and move on to more improved relationships and achieving my dreams!”
“Lisa Panos has been my life coach for almost 2 years. She has supported me through the death of my husband and my transition into an empty nest. Not only has she helped me whether some of my darkest days, but she has also inspired me to become a life, and holistic health coach myself and has continued to motivate me to step out of my comfort zone while I design and build a new career and life for myself. I truly don’t know where I would be today if it wasn’t for her expert coaching and, although I am now a coach myself, I continue to work with Lisa weekly…I can’t imagine NOT working with her!! If you are in need of someone to support you through the shit life can throw at you, call Lisa.”
“A year ago, I felt stuck emotionally, mentally, physically. Working with Lisa helped me define a vision of what my potential could be. She then held me accountable to activities that supported my new direction. I’m now on a path that aligns to my values and strengths which is critical for my growth!”
“I’ve worked with Lisa a number of times over the past 5 years. When I’m stuck and can’t figure out how to go forward, Lisa helps me get to the core of what’s keeping me stuck, own it, and take steps forward. Change and progress can be very overwhelming, and Lisa challenges me, and holds me accountable, on what I can do today to get closer to where I want to be. Her coaching has guided me through significant life decisions, leading me to greater personal fulfillment and growth. I am incredibly thankful for Lisa and will continue to see her guidance.
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